Anonymous: I have been talking to a guy randomly, and so far he seems really chill, we have a bit in common, and he makes an effort with me. We live in the same town and have mutual friends but I haven't met him in person and I only know how he looks by his pictures. Tbh he's cute in the face but seems a little husky and I don't go for that type. Its a terrible and superficial thing to say and I feel like my shallow judgement of people is why I'm still single. I dont know how to get over this hurdle. Help?
You should stop trying to fit people into a “type”. You’ll miss out on a lot of great people. If you are a fit person who likes going to the gym, maybe if you are together, you can help him get in shape. You should give him a chance.